If you say so
Three-digit perfect squares with distinct digits, and their digit sums:
169 196 256 289 324 361 529 576 625 729 784 841 16 16 13 19 9 10 16 18 13 18 19 13
Bearing in mind that some column and some other row are from this list, consider what the first row could be.
row1=169(16) => col2=625(13) => rowX no options row1=196(16) => col3=625(13) => rowX no options row1=256(13) => col1=289(19) => row2=841(13) not allowed row1=289(19) => col1=256(13) => rowX no options or => col2=841(13) => rowX no options row1=324(9) => col1=361(10) => rowX no options or => col2=256(13) => row3=169(16) => corners = maindiag not allowed or => col2=289(19) => row3=196(16) => filling in 7 and 5 gives
3 2 4 7 8 5 1 9 6
with these totals:
row1 9 row2 20 row3 16 col1 11 col2 19 col3 15 maindiag 17 skewdiag 13 corners 14
Computer search confirms this is the only such square